Some men experience premature ejaculation, ejaculating quickly before they are ready. It can either be primary or secondary. In primary premature ejaculation an early pattern of over excitement has been set up in that you are unable to make sex last before you lose control of the impulse to ejaculate. This generally emerges from early learnings and experiences. It may be culturally based or due to personal past experience. Those patterns need to be changed.
In secondary premature ejaculation there has been a biological shift. Hormonal levels could have changed. You may have had an experience that lodged deep into yro unconscious mind and set up a pattern of nervousness the around ejaculation.
Fortunately premature ejaculation treatment is available in my Sydney clinic. Since I am a naturopath as well as a clinical hypnotherapist and psychosexual therapist, I take a full medical history in treating premature ejaculation and may order blood tests so that we get a full picture of what is happening with you. Sometimes I prescribe some herbs or make other recommendations some including referrals for medications. Many men can be afraid or embarrassed to talk to other people about premature ejaculation but we provide a safe, confidential, professional environment to help you.
For some men the ageing process can change your ability to maintain performance during sex and you may start to ejaculate early. This can be helped with herbs, supplements, sex techniques and sometimes referral for medication. Perhaps your hormone levels, such as testosterone, may be lower so you have a lower sexual stamina.
In cases where there are psychological reasons for premature ejaculation, I would use sex therapy and hypnotherapy to help change your mindset and allow you to keep an erection longer before ejaculation. Many techniques can be used in the clinical environment to help you in overcoming premature ejaculation.